All people make mistakes. No one is perfect.

Think about a time when something you did or failed to do hurt another person – even if you didn’t mean to hurt that person.

What would have made that person feel better? Think of something more than just saying you were sorry.

For example, if you trampled your neighbor’s plants – in addition to saying you are sorry – you could have given her some new plants or have done the work of planting some new seeds for her.

If there is something that is still possible to do in the case you think about, make a plan to do so.

Remember, you are not only caring for the person who was hurt, you are also caring for yourself by proving to yourself that you are a kind and caring person.

If you want to help your children learn about making up for mistakes:  Making Children Feel Safe and Important, Part 2.