• What would life be like for you, if you truly believed that people cared about you and would help you get your needs met?  At home?  At work?

• What if you believed this deep down inside you – so deep you’re not sure where it comes from?

• What if this belief stuck with you and showed up every time you were worried or afraid?

WOW!

• Now, think what your children’s lives would be like if they truly believed that they could get their needs met by people who deeply cared about them.

• Ask yourself what you can do to help them believe that.

  

• Remember that the rules and consequences you set and enforce are part of making them know you care enough about them to make sure they know how to get along in the world and keep them safe.