Teaching Responsibility: Know Who Is Responsible


Parenting Thoughts

Only PEOPLE, not THINGS, can be responsible.
“The milk spilled.” Milk cannot spill itself. That would be magic. Only a PERSON can spill the milk.
You can help your child become a responsible person by being clear about who made the mistake. Name the person responsible.
Examples.
Saying who is responsible:  “You broke the toy. Let’s see if together we can fix it.”
Instead of: “The toy broke.” (No one is responsible for breaking the toy; no one is responsible for fixing it.)
Saying who is responsible:forgot to get cereal at the store. What else can I fix you for breakfast?”
Instead of:  “The cereal is gone.” (No one is responsible for not getting cereal; no one is responsible for a solution.)
Inspired by: SELF-ESTEEM: A FAMILY AFFAIR by Jean Illsley Clarke.

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