Today’s Parenting Tip:
Decide: Asking for help is a powerful thing to do.
Practice: Ask your parenting partner (see Daily Parenting Tip 7-13-13) to role play with you again about how to communicate with your child.
Remember, your friend likes you and wants to be helpful; it’s OK to ask.
Describe your child’s problem behavior and have your friend pretend to be you, the parent, while you pretend to be your child.
Have your friend make a critical parent response.
Listen to the criticism as though you were your child, see what you think and feel when you hear it. Would it help your child? If not, decide not to use criticism with your child.
When you are done tell your friend you know he (or she) is not really a critical person. (Jean Illsley Clarke calls this type of role play “Four Ways of Parenting.”)
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Today’s Decide and Practice daily parenting tip was inspired by our featured picture book, THE MONSTER WHO LOST HIS MEAN. Read the book to a child in your life each day as a reminder of what you are deciding and practicing that day.
Come back each day for another good parenting decision and how to practice it. (Each day’s activity will also be posted on Daily Parenting Tips page for easy access.)
Read the whole story at Correct; Don’t Criticize – Part 1.